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When To Call Her, A Woman Perspective

So you see the girl, chat it up a bite and some how she finds you somewhat attractive.  You work up the nerve to ask for her phone number-- now what? The question that men have pondered for years is when should I actually call her back? I personally think that the answer to this is more of an “art” then “science”, but Kezia of PUA training in the UK provides some pretty sound advice in the clip below.

What Do You Get When You “Get Into” A long-Term Relationship Or Marriage?

Hint: you don't get a future full of love, per se.

For the first time in the past 20 years the divorce rate actually went down. Our romantic side would lead us to think that the sexes are communicating more, becoming more empathic of our life partners, sharing experiences, in short, falling more in love. Nothing can be farther from the true. There’s a direct correlation between the 10 + % unemployment rate and the divorce rate. Simply put: people can’t afford to get divorce.

Freshballs.com : Because It’s Just Not About Shaving The Boys, It’s About Keeping Them Fresh by Steve Amarante

Over the past week I’ve received an overwhelming amount of emails on the last post “Get Your  Groom On”, most responses had one recurring theme; “Steve, keeping the boys groomed isn’t the issue, it’s keeping them nice and dry --that’s the real problem”

We at luvjungle, Inc did some searching and discovered www.freshballs.com Fresh Balls is the first and only antiperspirant for your boys… It’s Aluminum Free, Paraben Free and Talc Free. It contains Oatmeal as an anti-irritant and Tea Tree Oil – so it’s anti-bacterial as well. In other words, it’s perfect for your skin.

The intro video is funny as hell.

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Steve Amarante

www.luvjungle.com

Reference site: www.freshballs.com

Get Your Groom On: Pubic, Back Hair Remover With The Man Groomer by Steve Amarante

It happened again. I seem to get a weekly email, call or text from one of you guys trying to “maintain” that forest you call your back or pubic area, and inadvertently taking the task at hand a little too seriously. The good news is that for most of you, grooming and your overall hygiene has become a considerable aspect of your life. The bad news is that most of you are using the wrong tools. Some people recommend using an electric beard shaver to shave pubic hair. BAD IDEA!! Those shavers were created for the face and they will hurt the testicles. Even if you really want to take the risk and use an electric shaver on your pubic area, I honestly hope you won't use the same shaving foil on your face again after it has touched all your private parts.

Bartender “Game”, 5 Rules For Hooking Up With Your Local Bartender

Adam Lyons (of PUA Training fame) a few months ago put out this video on how to “pick up” Bartenders. He provides some sound advice.

Adam Lyons - How to Pick up A Bartender

Gambler | MySpace Video

 

A few highlights to note are:

1.     -- He mentions the Mere Exposure Technique. I posted something back in 2007 on this. Read more here.

2.     -- The importance of Isolation (moving the girl from behind the bar/work into the “real world”

3.     -- Mirroring her comments and experiences with the weirdo comment (read more here).

 

The one negative here is that this requires time and patience. If you think she’s worth it then go for it! But know this: you’re potential “mate” is in a high target work environment; she will get “hit on” by every dude. Make sure if your going down this road that you’re self-esteem can handle “prized” women….

 

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Steve Amarante

www.luvjungle.com

Site recommendation: www.puatraining.com

Know What The G-Spot Feels like Before Going Down Under

Let me be the first to apologize to all my ex-girlfriend for fumbling around trying to find that all-important G-Spot. For the three guys out there that know exactly where to fine and stimulate the G-Spot, you can skip the Dr. Oz video below. For the remaining 100 Million men in the world check it out. The 3:00 minute point goes into an interesting “thumb to mouth—this is how it feels” technique.

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Steve Amarante

www.luvjungle.com

Reference: http://www.doctoroz.com/

Stop Your Wining, Here Comes Winechap To The Rescue by Steve Amarante

Men’s Health magazine polled over 3400 women inquiring which drink she’d like for you to buy:

42% of women said Quality Wine

14% Draft Beer

13% Strawberry Daiquiri

11% imported Beer

10% Chocolate Martini

9% Gin and Tonic

If Wine is not part of your “dating reality”, it can be a little intimidating when the wine menu comes your way at a restaurant.

Thank You For Sharing The Water....

 

Life has a unique mechanism to get your attention when you refuse to listen to the coincidental symbols that are telling you to slow down…illness. I won’t relive the past, but instead focus on the future, our future. 8000 of you log in on a daily bases just to read my rants, and for that I’m grateful. I am even more grateful that most of you have “stuck around” for the past 4 months with no updates.

Here’s my promise to you: Over the next year we will bring you the very best information on relationships and strategies to improve your life.

1.     - We will re-do the site, make it more interactive.

2.     - We will link to more sites that provide added value from Underground Pick up tactics, health, technology, money and yes, even certain “female centric” sites that will provide you with woman perspective

3.     - We will launch a weekly Internet Radio Show

…And here’s the last promise; if you put into practice only 10% of the information we will provide, your life will forever be positively altered…and all for free.

 

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Steve Amarante

www.luvjungle.com

 

 

Thunderstorms Provide A Valuable Lesson In The World of Attraction by Steve Amarante

She was simply stunning. Caramel skinned, soft welcoming seductive eyes, possessing a smile that can light up a room, I was hooked.  Approaching her became a necessity not a desire. As she entered the train I can see her headed towards the only empty seat available that was coincidental next to me. Faith, serendipity, whatever you want to call it, filled with years of training, my brain quickly sprung into action, setting forth body language, opening statements, conversation hooks, movement mirroring among just a few tricks of the trade.

Benjamin Franklin’s Jedi-Mind Attraction Technique Revealed by Steve Amarante

A renowned author, politician, scientist and inventor, Benjamin Franklin epitomized and encapsulated the essences of today’s renaissance man, a man with intellectual acumen, creative suppleness who dressed the part and walked with a quite swagger. Mostly celebrated for his inventions and diplomacy (bifocals and the lighting rod to name a couple) his greatest discovery may have taken place within the walls of the Pennsylvania legislature, a discovery that can be leveraged to build an initial “Attraction Bridge” with that special someone.

As with any legislative body, political disagreement and opposition was commonplace during Franklin's tenure. Bothered by the lack of diplomacy and unwavering resistances for cooperation, Franklin explored for a way to help garner his opponent’s admiration and friendship when he soon came upon an old proverb:

“He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged”

Implementing the proverb, Franklin would request to borrow books from members of the legislative. He would read the book(s) and a week or so later would return the book with a sincere letter of appreciation. In subsequent face-to-face meeting with those members he would find that there attitudes toward him had changed, they’ve become much more amiable and civil. In some cases forming life long connections.

How can you leverage this to help you “Get the girl?” Simple: Get her to do
you a favor…and follow it up with a formal "Thank you" of some kind.

If there’s a woman who you’ve had an eye out for and has been in your “peripheral”, that’s to say she knows of you but no true connection has been formed, ask her to do you a favor of some kind.

You may be wondering why this works:

When someone does you a favor they are forced to find emotional and psychological congruency. She will ask herself “why am I going out of my way to do this jerk a favor? Maybe he’s not that much of a jerk…Steve’s not that bad come to think of it”.

In this technique, by requesting her to perform a favor, you’ve put her in a situation where she needs to contemplate and justify her actions, actions that once taken will, often enough, put you in her good graces. In particular if followed by a sincere "thank you for the favor" on your end.

Another reason this works well is because there’s a perceptional power shift. She will naturally think that she has something you “need” and she holds all the cards and power. This is fine--just stay focused on the outcome.

Survival Tip: The favor must come easy to her. She shouldn’t struggle or require much effort to perform the favor. An easy favor will help her overcome her initial resistance to want to help you…

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Steve Amarante
www.luvjungle.com

References: Jecker, J and Landy D. (1969) Benjamin Franklin effect. Human Relations, 22:371-78

Recommended reading: YES! 50 scientifically proven ways to be persuasive by Noah J. Goldstein, Steve J. Martin and Robert B. Cialdini

Recommended site: http://www.influenceatwork.com/

Genetically speaking, opposites do attract by Steve Amarante

When we think of attraction with regards to the subconscious; it’s often frame within the contexts of body language, structuring words (pick up lines) with suggestive inferences but never from the perspective of our genetic make-up. A recent study out of the University of Parana in Brazil however, implies that opposite genes plays a significant subconscious factor in how we choose a mate.

Having studied married couples; it was note that married duos were more likely to have genetically differences in DNA regions that govern the immune system than where randomly matched pairs.  Why?

America’s Past Time: Lessons In Attraction From The World Of Baseball

To the untrained eye, baseball, like all sports, appears to the layman observer as a group of men whirling a spherical “cowhide” object with the sole purpose of making contact, and running with no intended purpose whatsoever. On the other hand, what the astute observer sees is a strategic dance between pitcher and batter. As the pitcher hurls the ball, in milliseconds, the batter must decide to swing or let the ball pass on by. This dance plays out through a series of complex interactions of “give and takes” between two individuals, each trying to determine the opposition’s next move--moves which parallel and have lessons in the attraction process.

Why Every Single Male Should Make A Yearly Pilgrimage To Las Vegas by Steve Amarante

It’s been a week since my recent trip to Vegas, and as I reflect on all the tomfoolery, I couldn’t help question some of my fellow single mates, who’ve interrogated me as to why I go spend a seemly ridiculous amount of money on sinful pleasures.  For those skeptics here are two subtle and overlooked reasons.

1.    Vegas helps reduce anxiety approach when you come back home—This may seems counter intuitive as for anyone that has spent any time in Vegas recently, would tell you that women are dressed to impress. Walk the strip and there’s no shortage of 8’s 9’s and 10’s. Here’s a lesson: learn to mentally “bottle up” those 9’s and 10’s; what I mean by this is try to remember how that 10 looks (this shouldn’t be to hard if you’re a breathing male). Now, next time you’re approaching a girl back home, mentally compare the female you’re about to approach to that 10 you saw in Vegas. Chances are-she’s not as attractive.  What will naturally happen is that your approach anxiety will automatically be reduced as the law of contrast kicks in. If you tell yourself “she’s hot but not as hot as the girl I try to approach in Vegas” the likelihood of overcome approach anxiety will be dramatically reduced.

Yes: Even Vegas Can Teach Us A Thing Or Two About Relationships By Steve Amarante

Here’s the thing. Everyone who’s been to Vegas often comes back hyping how great it was. As the saying goes; “What Happens in Vegas, Well, Stays in Vegas”...The slogan along implies that you are in, if anything, for a pretty interesting time.  I’ve been fortunate enough to visit this city 8 times in the past 3 years and I can’t recall a time when I simply didn’t have a blast!

The secret?

Building Attraction Using Pet Nicknames Revisited by Steve Amarante

A while back we discussed the power of leveraging pet nicknames and private jokes to build attraction. The effectiveness of this technique is found in that it creates an auditory “regression” response. Her past associations of nicknames and private jokes instantly creates a mental “relationship paradigm” that she subconsciously project onto you.  I ran across a study that can take the use of nicknames a step further.  The study, conducted by Mauricio Carvallo and John Jones, suggests that people choose to marry others who have similar-sounding first or last names. All else being equal, if Sandra, Steve, Michelle and Michael all meet one another for the first time, Sandra will be more likely to become romantically involved with Steve then with Michael, and the opposite is more likely to occur with Michelle.  The underlying reason is that people have a natural tendency to be attracted to things that remind themselves.