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Attraction: Skill Or Character Trait

I am often asked why some men are “natural” seducers; confident in there approach with women despite some obvious shortcoming, while others, with the worlds resources at there disposal, can’t string up a few words or drum up the courage to echo a simple “Hi”. The web has no shortage of book recommendations-blogs, forums and psychological dignitaries providing a tsunami of information on improving your attraction proficiency. Although the focus of most of these outlets provide information on how to improve your overall “pick up game”, and perhaps rightful so, the only way for a man to become a true natural in the seduction game is to have specific and unyielding character traits. In fact these “natural” pick up artist, the annotated “lucky ones” that seemly can walk into a bar and have women throw underwear at them from a single glare, are only acting out skill sets that are actually unbeknown character traits formulated during preadolescence and subsequently filter through personal experiences in the dating and attraction process.

Attraction and seduction “skills” are then a consequence (a result, an effect) of character traits; in as such can be learned by any man disciplined enough to live a life anchored to specific behavior(s).

Election 08: Beyond The Politics A Lesson in Relationships

Today we’ve awakened to a new morning, a new day and a new president. The collective voice of a nation, old and young, black and white, with millions of shades in between, cast their vote for change. A change in how we govern, a change in the way we relate to the world, and perhaps, a change in how we relate to each other. Historic change is gradual, from the Civil Rights Movement to November 4, 2008—President number “44” represents a new way of thinking, a metamorphosis of our interpersonal consciousness. But beyond the politics, the elections serve as a symbol for our own personal relationships.