Use SMS To Improve Your Pick Up Game by Steve Amarante

Unquestionably, SMS texting has gone mainstream, and in the process, has become an indispensable technology in a hectic world.  I’ve had the privilege of observing, over the past six months; two master “texting” pick up artist.  They seemly are able to texts an arrangement of words, in a 2 by 4 inch screen, that exude and generate sexual attraction. Here are some basic, yet often overlooked concepts, implemented by these M.T.P.A.

1.     They use SMS to establish and show value

When she gives you her number text her right away with something like “Who’s that really hot guy you’re standing next too”. Whether its humor, or given off the presences of being an “Alpha” man (i.e. Thanks for the number-I will call you tomorrow at 8pm”) show value in your text messages. There are time when a simple “What’s up” works, however, when you are first following up with her establish and show value verse the standard “needy” non-emotional texts. The technology already provides a layer of impersonality, no need to make your texts such.

2.    They mirror her pace

This is one aspect where the data/virtual world reflects some of the things you should be doing in the “real” world. The concept of mirroring is simple. If you send her a message and she reply right away, you mirror her timing and text right back. If she takes 5 minutes to reply, then reply back in 5 minutes interval. This will unconsciously establish both a rhythm and subtle connection.

3.    They use SMS as a means to an end

Know how you want the text conversation to end. The master texts pick up artist generally has a next step (follow up). “Hey let’s meet up for coffee on Friday” or “Let’s go to the movies on Sunday”.  

Finally, note that texting is just one element of your overall game! Use it appropriately but never let it be a crutch for speaking to a girl directly…

Survival Tip: Like the technology implies(SMS-Short Message Service), the conversation should be short and should ALWAYS be ended by you. This will ensure that you are keeping the upper hand in the flow of the conversation and over all expectation(s). ALWAYS KEEP THEM WANTING MORE….

Share The Water…

Steve Amarante
www.luvjungle.com

Pic credit: http://www.flickr.com/people/keiramellis/

Comments

[mankiller]

Great post Steven! I think the mirroring aspect is often overlooked. Keep up the good work...