Any single man with an active sexual lifestyle, and a car, might want to consider keeping an overnight bag. Even if you’re not actively looking to hook up, having an overnight bag stashed in the truck of the car will signal to your subconscious from time to time that, heck, why not me, why not tonight. More importantly, whether it’s after a fabulous date, or a lucky one-night stand, it’s about being prepared for the moment.
Here are some MUST have items:
1. Clean set of underwear, change of clothes. The key word here is clean.
2. Oils, and foot rub lotion. Try to keep them as generic as possible. You don’t know what smells she’s into or not. Also, on some rare occasion she might be allergic to certain smells or products. Nothing can ruin a night like a girl breaking out in hives.
3. Wine and couple of paper cups. The paper cups add an element of “simplistic” to the evening and it helps avoid her having to wash things in the morning.
4. Condoms, goes without saying
5. One Romantic DVD/Blue-Ray-there no doubt she will have a copy of the “The notebook” or something similar. The point of the DVD is extending the romantic feels AFTER the hook up with YOU initiating the moment.
6. Toothbrush
Here are some “best practices” or rules your should follow:
1. Make sure your cell-phone is OFF, (always locked) it’s about her tonight and no one else
2. Just because you’re getting it on doesn’t mean you’re not a guest, treat her place with respect; home is an extension of her. NO feet on the couch or table leave the Alpha man behavior for the bedroom. Your focus is to make her feel comfortable for making the decision to let you thru the front door.
3. The bag should represent you, skip that beat up college bag that’s been laying in the attic for years, instead get something that represents the smooth, suave man that’s about to rock her world. Remember, women pick up on all visual cues, especially things that they are into like bags.
The thought will cross her mind that you’re a player; who the F is this ready unless they are doing this on a regular bases? Embrace it, don’t fight it, instead deflect it and focus on the moment.
Share The Water…
Steve Amarante
You may believe these four proverbs:
While there is life, there is hope.
From small beginnings comes great things.
Money spent on the brain is never spent in vain.
Wise men learn by other men's mistakes; fools by their own.
Posted by: Coach Purses | February 24, 2011 at 09:03 PM