A few years back Dr. Jan Souman of the Max Planck institute was the first to present data that people really walk in circles in the absence of a guiding source like a North Star, Sun or Moon. That’s to say; if I where to drop you in the middle of the jungle, regardless of which direction you walked, more then likely you will end up right where you started without some initial guide point. Our instincts, tendencies and predispositions aren’t enough. It’s human nature, then, to require guidance-a map of sort to put us back on course.
Our relationships are the same…
Despites the advances in gender equality-you are expected to lead. Every relationship new and old alike, have highs and lows. Each dip represents an opportunity for you to fill the vacuum. In it simplest form, this means, don’t wait to make dinner reservation, plan that weekend gateway, send her a “thinking of you” text and send those flowers. Do so before your relationship ends up in circles. Hurry, she waiting…
Share The Water…
Steve Amarante
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