…Conveying an action. Better, then, to focus on what she does vs. what she says. Even more illuminating is what she DOESN’T do (lack of action). Has she recently stop calling? Text messages not flying back and forth like before? Does she avoid communicating via social media outlets? Are you an afterthought with her future plans and the concept of “we” is more “I” now? When life is stacking the deck of cards against you does she engage more or isn’t as supportive as you would expect in a loving relationship?
Of course, one should always ask oneself why the change—that’s to say why the lack of action on her part (and how, perhaps, you are the cause of this) but in the scope of things- statements are simple. Talk is cheap. Action however? Action is king…this should be your new measuring stick.
Share The Water…
Steve Amarante
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