Hint: you don't get a future full of love, per se.
For the first time in the past 20 years the divorce rate
actually went down. Our romantic side would lead us to think that the sexes are
communicating more, becoming more empathic of our life partners, sharing
experiences, in short, falling more in love. Nothing can be farther from the
true. There’s a direct correlation between the 10 + % unemployment rate and the
divorce rate. Simply put: people can’t afford to get divorce.
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It happened again. I seem to get a weekly email, call or
text from one of you guys trying to “maintain” that forest you call your back
or pubic area, and inadvertently taking the task at hand a little too seriously.
The good news is that for most of you, grooming and your overall hygiene has
become a considerable aspect of your life. The bad news is that most of you are
using the wrong tools. Some people recommend using an electric beard shaver to
shave pubic hair. BAD IDEA!! Those shavers were created for the face and they
will hurt the testicles. Even if you really want to take the risk and use an
electric shaver on your pubic area, I honestly hope you won't use the same shaving
foil on your face again after it has touched all your private parts.
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To the untrained eye, baseball, like all sports, appears to the layman observer as a group of men whirling a spherical “cowhide” object with the sole purpose of making contact, and running with no intended purpose whatsoever. On the other hand, what the astute observer sees is a strategic dance between pitcher and batter. As the pitcher hurls the ball, in milliseconds, the batter must decide to swing or let the ball pass on by. This dance plays out through a series of complex interactions of “give and takes” between two individuals, each trying to determine the opposition’s next move--moves which parallel and have lessons in the attraction process.
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Here’s the thing. Everyone who’s been to Vegas often comes back hyping how great it was. As the saying goes; “What Happens in Vegas, Well, Stays in Vegas”...The slogan along implies that you are in, if anything, for a pretty interesting time. I’ve been fortunate enough to visit this city 8 times in the past 3 years and I can’t recall a time when I simply didn’t have a blast!
The secret?
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A while back we discussed the power of leveraging pet nicknames and private
jokes to build attraction. The effectiveness of this technique is found in that it creates an auditory “regression” response. Her past associations of nicknames and private jokes instantly creates a mental “relationship paradigm” that she subconsciously project onto you. I ran across a study that can take the use of nicknames a step further. The study, conducted by Mauricio Carvallo and John Jones, suggests that people choose to marry others who have similar-sounding first or last names. All else being equal, if Sandra, Steve, Michelle and Michael all meet one another for the first time, Sandra will be more likely to become romantically involved with Steve then with Michael, and the opposite is more likely to occur with Michelle. The underlying reason is that people have a natural tendency to be attracted to things that remind themselves.
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The New York City Mass Transit, unfortunately, has no shortage of panhandlers and the six train is no exception. As my main means of returning home from a day of work, and for several years at that, the train, and the faces of those who cram these mobile metal people haulers become familiar over time. Rocawear, as I came to know one of the panhandlers as he wore a Rocawear sweater over several other layers of clothing, would often get off the last stop of the train, which was my stop as well. Rocawear would head down to street level and prepared for one of the best attraction sleight of verbal manipulation ever, and, in the process served as an example of the three foundations of all attraction: opening, comfort and then closing.
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The Internet never forgets. As a result we have a simplistic channel in which we can relive history. A few clicks here and there, you can easily find hundreds if not thousands of articles and commentaries warning us on the coming housing crisis economic down fall. Some articles go back as far as 2001. Fast-forward to today; we are bombarded with news on stimulus packages, talks about a coming depression and massive layoffs. We are now looking for treatments when all those years we had the opportunity to prevent. The same people, who ignored the news for all those years, are the ones now spending countless hours in the proverbial economic emergency room, zapping away with the paddles in hopes of reviving our economy.
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Maxim magazine recently published their annual sex survey (March, 2009).
Leave it to the folks over at Maxim to ask those questions others considered “Taboo”. The survey, conducted over the net, had over two thousand female participants. Below are some of the more relevant findings with some suggested implications and action items.
57.3 % of women met their current partner through a friend
Action Item: Treat every woman you encounter kindly—Hot often hangs out with Hot. The numbers suggest that you are more likely to find a date/significant other within a “circle of friends” vs. a bar or club.
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By now we’ve all seen the images, a commercial aircraft floating in the
Hudson, an improbable landing with a miraculous Hollywood ending. In a
time of financial turmoil, a world in chaos with unilateral wars in the
Middle East and global energy constrains, the events that unfolded in a
cold afternoon in the greatest city in the world could not have come at
a better time. It was haled a miracle—but a closer assessment will
reveal a series of “miracles”, miracles that provide valuable lesson in
improving our personal relationships.
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