Women's minds and genitals respond differently to sexual
arousal, whereas in men, the responses of the body and mind are more in tune
with each other, according to Assistant Professor Meredith Chivers, from
Queen's University in Kingston, Canada.
Men's subjective and physiological measures of sexual
arousal showed a greater degree of agreement than women's. For the male
participants, the subjective ratings more closely matched the physiological
readings indicating that men's minds and genitals were in agreement. For the
women, however, the responses of the mind and genitals were not as closely
matched as men's, suggesting a split between women's bodies and minds. The
readings from the physiological measurements and their subjective ratings were,
in some cases, significantly different.
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Maxim magazine recently published their annual sex survey (March, 2009).
Leave it to the folks over at Maxim to ask those questions others considered “Taboo”. The survey, conducted over the net, had over two thousand female participants. Below are some of the more relevant findings with some suggested implications and action items.
57.3 % of women met their current partner through a friend
Action Item: Treat every woman you encounter kindly—Hot often hangs out with Hot. The numbers suggest that you are more likely to find a date/significant other within a “circle of friends” vs. a bar or club.
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As long as there’s some form of human interact between the sexes; sexual temptations will always exist. A recent study out of McGill University in Montreal suggest however that men may not see their sexual or playful advances with an attractive woman as threatening to their existing relationship while conversely women do. Researchers uncovered that women protect their relationship more when an attractive man enters the picture but men look more pessimistically at their partner after they've met an attractive woman.
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Whether on a second or tenth date the first time a women comes over to your
place she will always feel a bit out of her comfort zone. It stands that the more women are displaced from their comfort zone, and general the more they are threatened, the more they will search out that which is familiar. She is a creature of habits. So much so that in the occasions that when exposed to someone else habitual “lifestyle patterns” she tend to incorporate them even in the face of personal and physical damage (i.e. think smoking and over drinking). Where identified, patterns should always be used in the seduction process.
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I gazed at the duct tape on my side table that haunted me for the past three weeks with a sense of wonder, anticipation and excitement. Trinity had a way of making the most mundane objects extraordinarily erotic. The sudden knock on the door sent a warm arousing awareness down the center of my back. She always refused to ring the doorbell; seemingly preferring the rhythmic sound of her knuckles against the wooden panel, a sensual rhythmic sound, that foreshadowed the night to come. She bounded my wrists and ankles with the fore mentioned duct tape. The stickiness felt awkward, out of place, definitely not romantic. As she dimmed the light it felt a bit like an interrogation. Her eyes reveled a clear path; a path who’s intent was to deliberately and systematically dismantle my personal sexual identity. She was hell bent on descending me into the proverbial sexual gutter.
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She walked thru the door wearing only a trench coat. The sounds of her 3-inch heels clicking on my crooked wooden floors echoed with seduction as she strolled in. Trinity removed her old-school oversized Jackie Onassis sunglasses, and dangled her purse that resembled a medic bag. As I had become accustomed- she wasted no time and headed straight to my bedroom. Her 55-year-old Peruvian babysitter was on a tight schedule, which meant that she had no time to waste.
“I missed you—so I brought duct tape”
“Duct tape?”
“Yeah duct tape…” I couldn’t make the connection --it didn’t seem logical to me, but who was I to question her.
“Let’s skip the hand job-I just got my nails done”
“Excuse me?
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